
"Can
you help????"
During the twelve or so
years I have been involved with Broken Rites I have been amazed at the
strength, determination and compassion of our members and also of the
variety and quality of amazing talent amongst us all.
When I first joined
Broken Rites, Wendy held the role of Chair and was doing a fantastic
job forming links with Scotland, Wales and N Ireland. Other Chairs have
over the past 26 years, all forged new ground in different areas. As an
organisation, we have achieved so much and should be justly proud of our
first 26 years! Likewise other roles on the committee have been held by a
variety of people, all making fantastic contributions in different ways
and often gaining a huge amount of self confidence from undertaking the
different roles and often learning new skills.
All our committees,
current and past, have been made up of a combination of members who stay
on the committee for fairly long periods of time, others who stay for one
term of office and then return several years later (often in a different
role) and new members who come forward for the first time. In my
experience a good committee needs this combination of the continuity of
longer serving members and also new members with fresh ideas and
perspectives. Any membership organisation that leaves the same few
members to run the committee over many, many years, in my opinion, is in
danger of becoming stagnant with the result that it will struggle to
survive.
So it is vital that we
encourage each other to join the committee particularly members who have
not served on the committee before, to take up roles such as regional
representatives, treasurer and other roles. Ideally the position of Chair
needs to be filled by someone who has previously sat on, or is currently
on the committee, or someone who has experience of fulfilling the role of
Chair with another capacity.
Roles to fill
.You will all probably
have gathered where this is leading, in that we are looking for a new
Chair, Treasurer and Regional Representatives for three areas. Please,
please think about whether you could take on any of these roles. The term
of office for Chair and Treasurer is two years with an option for two
further one year periods. Is there a member of Broken Rites who you would
like to see as Chair, Treasurer or your Regional Representative (if your
area does not have one) – if so please encourage them to think about
coming forward. We all need encouragement to take on new things and
encouragement and supporting each other is something, I think, Broken
Rites as an organisation excels at.
Our committee meetings
are friendly and informal; we have a laugh although we take our work and
roles seriously. We support each other when assistance or help is
required in all the different aspects of our work. Importantly the
expectation of the role of Chair is very much determined by the individual
holding the office and what direction they and the Committee feel is right
at that time. This is
YOUR
organisation and we are all responsible for ensuring its continued
development and existence. If anyone would like to have an informal chat
about taking on one of these roles please give me a ring on 01257 423893
or drop me an e-mail -
secretary@brokenrites.org.
I would like to leave
you with some words spoken by a member of the committee who ‘reluctantly’
took on a role several years ago. “Taking on this role has helped in
giving back to me the confidence which I had lost when my life ‘fell
apart’, and I have learnt new skills which I never imagined were
possible!”
Please think and pray
about this over the coming weeks. Sue